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Sir Nicholas Winton is a humanitarian who organized a rescue operation that saved the lives of 669 Jewish Czechoslovakia children from Nazi death camps, and brought them to the safety of Great Britain between the years 1938-1939.

After the war, his efforts remained unknown. But in 1988, Winton’s wife Grete found the scrapbook from 1939 with the complete list of children’s names and photos. Sir Nicholas Winton is sitting in an audience of Jewish Czechoslovakian people who he saved 50 years before.

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Who ever, ever thought this was wise advice??? People give it all the time. There’s a book/movie based on it. But life has lessons we must learn. And life won’t release us from those lessons until it is time and we have learned them. Stop telling other people how to feel. In most cases many would choose to change their heart if they could. But grief, change, wisdom, hope… Are all a process. When we skip steps we usually find ourselves right back where we started. Walk the road you’re on and never let anyone tell you that you aren’t moving fast enough. They aren’t living your life. It is truly up to you to take one step at a time towards your future- whichever direction you choose to go.
Who ever, ever thought this was wise advice??? People give it all the time. There’s a book/movie based on it.

But life has lessons we must learn. And life won’t release us from those lessons until it is time and we have learned them.

Stop telling other people how to feel. In most cases many would choose to change their heart if they could. But grief, change, wisdom, hope… Are all a process. When we skip steps we usually find ourselves right back where we started.

Walk the road you’re on and never let anyone tell you that you aren’t moving fast enough. They aren’t living your life.

It is truly up to you to take one step at a time towards your future- whichever direction you choose to go.

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best thing I’ve ever read

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best thing I’ve ever read

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You would not be here TODAY if YESTERDAY was your defining moment. LIVE THIS DAY and move towards your dreams.
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Today’s goal. 

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Today’s goal.

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Anonymous said: What are the signs of emotional abuse?

mental-health-advice:

Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

Love, Salem

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